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		<title>New Phone Number</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a new cell phone number!  It will likely take some before the old number disappears from websites, flyers, and business cards, so please update your contact information to reach me at 540-442-0316.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a new cell phone number!  It will likely take some before the old number disappears from websites, flyers, and business cards, so please update your contact information to reach me at 540-442-0316.</p>
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		<title>Event Invitation Mistake #2: Be Boring.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 16:15:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kaidegner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Come to hear an expert show a PowerPoint Presentation about her work.  Please RSVP today! If I get that invite (and I have), I&#8217;m probably not going (I didn&#8217;t).  So often, very engaging speakers and presentations get little audience because the invitation doesn&#8217;t do the event justice.  This expert could be a NASA astronaut showing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><em style="font-style: italic;">Come to hear an expert show a PowerPoint Presentation about her work.  Please RSVP today!</em></p></blockquote>
<p><strong style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">If I get that invite (and I have), I&#8217;m probably not going (I didn&#8217;t).  So often, very engaging speakers and presentations get little audience because the invitation doesn&#8217;t do the event justice.  This expert could be a NASA astronaut showing the most amazing pictures from a space walk, but the description has me asleep.</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>Solution: </strong>Don&#8217;t actually have a boring event.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Solution: </span><span style="font-weight: normal;">Give me a few sentences about this person&#8217;s work, give me some facts that will &#8220;wow&#8221; me, show me an image from the slideshow, or give me a link or a short video with more information.  Tell me what&#8217;s interesting and unique!</span></strong></p>
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		<title>Event Invitation Mistake #1: The &#8220;Me Me Me&#8221; Invitation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 16:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kaidegner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why didn&#8217;t anyone show up to my discussion event?  We had everything planned, we invited a lot of people &#8211; and only 6 people came!  No one cares. I&#8217;ve heard this countless times, for all kinds of events.  An organization or person puts together and advertises an awareness event, a speaker, a video showing, or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><em>Why didn&#8217;t anyone show up to my discussion event?  We had everything planned, we invited a lot of people &#8211; and only 6 people came!  No one cares.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard this countless times, for all kinds of events.  An organization or person puts together and advertises an awareness event, a speaker, a video showing, or a discussion, and when the attendance is low, the blame is on &#8220;people&#8221; for not caring and being apathetic. Consider this: it&#8217;s not &#8220;people&#8221;, it&#8217;s poor and/or lazy planning and inviting.<span id="more-137"></span></p>
<p>I thought I&#8217;d blog about some common mistakes people make when inviting people, and then post some techniques I&#8217;ve seen be successful.</p>
<p><strong style="font-weight: bold;">Mistake #1: The &#8220;Me Me Me&#8221; Invitation</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>Listen to </em></span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>me</em></span></span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em> talk about </em></span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>me</em></span></span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em> so you can support </em></span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>me</em></span></span><span style="font-weight: normal;"><em>!</em></span></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><strong style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Annoying, right?  Yeah.  Event organizers frequently design events to get out their own message, and advertise the event without one hint of what the opportunity is for the potential guest in attending.  The result is usually friends and colleagues are guilted into attending and few other people show.</span></strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong style="font-weight: bold;">Solution:<span style="font-weight: normal;"> Invite people by first recognizing their own work and interests.  Share what their opportunities are in attending &#8211; how will it help them with what they want to do?  What difference can be made by their attending?  If you&#8217;re not sure, ask!  &#8221;What would make this event interesting to you and worth your time?&#8221;</span></strong></p>
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